This checklist will help the bride in planning the most important day of her life. Feel free to print it out and give copies to those helping to plan your wedding (especially your Maid or Matron of Honor).
12 Months Out
- Determine Your Level of Formality and the Overall Wedding Theme
Once you have determined the budget and started defining the size of your event (aka the guest list), it is time to choose the formality and theme. Work as a couple, thinking about what is essential to both of you. Plus, are there any restrictions from your venue that could impact your decisions? Make sure the formality level matches up with the theme. Another words, don't demand a black-tie formality with a country theme. It might feel and look incredibly disjointed.
5 Months Out
- Book Your Transporation
If you are using a limo or specialty car on the big day, then you need to get that booked. Make sure it fits your style and theme.
4 Months Out
- Buy Your Wedding Bands
- Select Your Bridesmaids Attire and Schedule Fittings
- Hair and Makeup Trial
3 Months Out
- Write Your Vows and Select Any Readings for Your Ceremony
2 Months Out
- First Dress Fitting
- Buy Wedding Party Gifts
- Do a Mock-Up With Your Florist
- Give Your Song List to Your DJ or Band
- Buy Any Small, Random Items
These include cake topper, table numbers, guest book, card box, ring-bearer accessories, flower-girl accessories, garter, flip-flops, sunglasses, toasting flutes, etc.
1 Month Out
- Break-In Your Wedding Shoes
Final Week
- Mani/Pedi
- Final Dress Fitting
- Get Your Eyebrows and Hair Color Done
- Pack Your Bag for Honeymoon
- Clean Your Ring
- Deliver Final Head Count to Your Vendors
- Clear Your Work To-Do List
- Practice Your Vows Outloud
- Write Your Partner a Note
Night Before the Wedding
- Eat a Healthy Meal
- Pack a Clutch or Small Bag of Personal Items
- Drink Water
- Get a Good Night's Sleep
- Put any bags, boxes, suitcases, or survival kits into the car for the ceremony or reception
Day of the Wedding
- Stay off your feet
- Eat breakfast
- Drink more water
- Take your dress out and steam it if necessary
- Layout all the items you want to have the photographer capture
- Exchange notes with your partner
- Say thank you to those around you