Did you know that it takes an average of 11 months to plan a marriage ceremony? From engagement to booking venues, inviting guests, rehearsals, and everything up until the big day takes roughly a year to come together. All hands must be on deck to plan the perfect wedding.
Here is our checklist for the groom to ensure a perfect wedding for everyone involved.
Order the Ring
Buying your partner’s ring should be close to the top of your “groom to-do list.” It is customary that each person buys the wedding band for their fiancé. You will want a budget and style in mind. The ring’s look depends on personal preference, whether the bands will match, and even lifestyle (how durable it needs to be for day-to-day life).
Ordering a standard band takes around one to two weeks. However, if you want custom engraving or any other personalization, it may take up to two months. Give yourself ample time to get the ring (especially if it may need resizing).
Create a Gift Registry With Your Betrothed
The gift registry typically ends up being one person’s responsibility, but it is one of the most critical aspects of planning the perfect wedding. Typical registries include gifts for a shared home, travel gear, kitchen appliances and tools, and so on. It is not limited to the basics and expected, though.
Modern registry items include gift cards for valuable services, like rideshares, delivery apps, or money toward your honeymoon. It should be a mix of useful and fun.
Choose Your Attire
Traditional attire for grooms is a suit or tuxedo with colorful elements to match the wedding party, theme and complement the venue. While a three-piece suit is expected, do not be afraid to break from tradition, especially if your wedding is outdoors or in hot weather. Bright high-top canvas shoes are popular choices to add a splash of color.
As your groomsmen wear the same, or a very similar outfit, consider consulting your party about prices to make sure the attire you are looking at is within everyone’s price range. Consider more than one option, so financing is a little more flexible. If you want everyone to wear something unique that is not usually a part of a wedding look (like colorful socks), consider buying them for your party members.
Check the Requirements for a Marriage License in Your State
The state of Montana still requires women to undergo a blood test to test for diseases before obtaining a marriage license. Other limitations include waiting periods between applying and receiving the permit. Texas and Iowa have the most extended wait times: 3 days.
Get Gifts for Your Wedding Party
Your groomsmen or attendants in your wedding party are by your side for many stressful and joyous moments in wedding prep. To show your appreciation, present them with thoughtful and fun gifts. Decide your budget and explore your options.
Personalizing versatile gifts, like barware (beer mugs, whiskey tumblers, or shot glasses), pocket knives, a reusable metal lighter, or a bottle opener, are typically popular options. Budget-friendly gift options are high-end coffee beans, fun socks, or mini liquor bottles in excellent packaging.
Follow This Checklist for the Groom for a Successful Wedding
The stress of wedding planning does not just fall on the shoulders of one person. This wedding checklist for the groom will help get you started and make sure you have everything you need on your big day. Please share this article with a groom-to-be or contact us for help with any aspects of wedding planning.
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